As men, sometimes we get caught up in the daily business of life, and we forget that being called a gentlemen is not a right, but a privilege.
Growing up, the first bit of “dating advice” that a guy will often get is from his well-meaning mother.
She will tell him that the best way to get a girl to like him is to first know how to be a gentleman to a lady. Treat her nicely, buy her flowers, pull out her chair for her and push it in, open the car door for her.
Blah, blah, blah…
How about getting women to treat YOU nicely? If you’re a typical nice guy (like I used to be), you will have already tried being a gentleman to women and would have been rejected many times because of it .There is nothing wrong with being nice to a woman or treating her to some gentlemanly behavior. However, if you don’t first focus on making her feel sexually attracted to you, she won’t really care how much of a good guy you are.
Only after you have triggered a woman’s feelings of sexual desire will she then really appreciate the fact that you’re a gentleman and have good intentions with her.