In today’s world, the right way to be a gentleman to a woman is to simply show her by way of your manners, conversation, body language, vibe and attitude that you are a man of class.
Be considerate, loving, caring, compassionate, attentive and present when you interact with her. However, make sure that you ALSO focus on making her feel sexually attracted to you.
While a woman might be impressed by gentlemanly behavior when she first meets a guy, she won’t remain impressed for long if he isn’t triggering feelings of sexual attraction inside of her. After a while, she will begin to feel suspicious and wonder why he is being so nice to her, even though she isn’t sexually interested in him.
She may then begin to treat him badly, show a lack of interest or lead him on and pretend to be interested (so she can continue getting all the nice treatment) while she focuses on finding a guy who actually knows how to turn her on.
Do you know how to attract a woman and turn her on when you interact with her?
Mistakes That Guys Make When Trying to Be a Gentleman to a Lady
There’s nothing wrong with being a bit of a gentleman, especially when you’re interacting with a woman who sees herself as a lady or high class woman. However, make sure that you don’t make the following mistakes that other guys make…
1. Acting like he just wants to be friends
A gentlemanly guy like this will be seriously interested in having a sexual relationship with a woman, but he will behave like an innocent friend. He will feel as though it would be disrespectful to be forward about his sexual interest in her, so he will act like he just wants to be a nice friend to her.
A woman may be impressed by his manners, but because she doesn’t know that he is sexually interested in her, she will keep her options option and look for a guy who is.
What many guys don’t realize is that most women are insecurity about their looks and sex appeal. According to the international survey conducted by Dove cosmetics, 96% of women do not consider themselves to be beautiful.
If a guy just acts like a friend and doesn’t make it clear that he finds her sexually attractive, a woman’s insecurity will often get in the way and she will act the same way around him.
She will be worried about getting rejected by him if she shows sexual interest, so she will act like a friend and then hook up with another guy who is confident enough to say, “Wow, you’re looking sexy today” or “Hey, I thought I’d come over and say hi…you’re easily the most beautiful woman in the bar.”
2. Thinking that good manners will be enough to woo her
Although a woman will be impressed by a guy’s good manners, if he doesn’t display the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women (e.g. confidence, charisma, masculine vibe, ability to make her laugh, etc), she won’t really care about his good manners.
3. Being a fake gentleman, when he’s really just a normal, good guy with good intentions
Some guys pretend to be a really nice guy or classy gentleman, when they are really just a normal good guy.
At home, he will masturbate to hardcore porn with women being double penetrated, choked, etc, but around women, he will pretend to be an innocent gentleman who would never think of anything erotic or naughty.
One a date, he will open the passenger side car door for her to get in, pull out her chair, bring her flowers and try to impress her with an expensive dinner.
Most women won’t be able to spot that he is a fake gentleman initially, but if the date goes on for long enough, the woman will eventually begin to pick up on subtle cues that he is simply putting on an act as a way to hopefully impress her.
When a woman gets the sense that a guy is being a fraud, she will raise up her guard and make it extremely difficult for him to escalate to the next level (i.e. kissing, sex, relationship).
How to be a Gentleman and Still Get the Girl
If you want to be a gentleman who can attract high class ladies, you need to first focus on mastering your ability to trigger feelings of sexual attraction inside of a woman when you interact with her.
You are most-likely already a really good guy, so you probably don’t need to become any more gentlemanly. You have the manners, you have good intentions and you want to find yourself a lady.
However, what modern women (including ladies) are looking for first and foremost is a man who can make them feel sexually attracted and turned on. You have to start with sexual attraction and then everything else flows on smoothly after that.